Anxiety doesn’t always look obvious. It can show up in small ways — constant tension in your body, racing thoughts, trouble sleeping or avoiding people. Many people live with anxiety for years before realizing how much it’s affecting their daily lives.
This guide outlines 7 clear signs that it may be time to talk to a therapist. If any of these feel familiar, know you’re not alone, and help is available.
1. Constant Worry That Feels Out of Control
A common sign of anxiety is excessive, uncontrollable worry — even when there’s no apparent reason. It might feel like your brain is constantly racing or expecting something terrible to happen.
You might find yourself:
- Overthinking small things
- Replaying conversations
- Struggling to “shut your brain off”
This kind of worry goes beyond everyday stress. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, 6.8 million U.S. adults, or 3.1% of the U.S. population, live with Generalized Anxiety Disorder — and only 43.2% are receiving treatment.
2. Physical Symptoms You Can’t Explain
Anxiety can cause real physical symptoms, even when doctors can’t find anything wrong. These may include:
- Headaches
- Stomach pain
- Muscle tension
- Rapid heartbeat
- Fatigue
This happens because anxiety activates your body’s stress response. The nervous system stays on high alert, even when there’s no actual danger.
3. Avoidance of Everyday Situations
Do you cancel plans, avoid phone calls, or feel nervous in everyday situations like grocery stores or public spaces?
Avoidance is a subtle but common sign of anxiety. Over time, it can make your world feel smaller and more isolating.
Therapy can help you understand what’s behind the fear and build confidence in facing overwhelming situations.
4. Trouble Sleeping or Concentrating
Anxiety often makes it hard to fall asleep — or stay asleep. Your mind stays active at night, and during the day, your concentration suffers.
You may find yourself:
- Waking up frequently
- Lying awake with racing thoughts
- Struggling to complete tasks
- Feeling mentally drained
5. Irritability and Restlessness
Anxiety isn’t always about fear. Sometimes, it shows up as frustration or restlessness. You may feel:
- Easily annoyed
- Like you’re constantly “on edge.”
- Uncomfortable doing nothing
This isn’t just a personality quirk — it’s a sign your nervous system is overstimulated. Therapy can help regulate those feelings and reduce the tension.
6. Feeling Disconnected or Overwhelmed
Anxiety can make you feel numb, detached, or emotionally overwhelmed. Life may feel like you’re just going through the motions.
You might notice:
- Difficulty enjoying things
- Feeling emotionally “checked out”
- Crying easily or not feeling much at all
These symptoms are often linked to burnout or long-term stress, and they’re signs that your system is overloaded.
7. You’re Asking, “Do I Need Help?
If you’re reading this article, it’s likely because a part of you is wondering if something’s off. That question — Do I need help? — is one of the clearest signs that it’s worth talking to someone.
You don’t need a diagnosis or a crisis. You just need a space to talk things through.
And honestly, that’s what we do here. We help people sort through their feelings — without pressure or judgment.
How Anxiety Therapy Can Help
At Sunset Counseling Services, we offer personalized, evidence-based therapy for anxiety. We work with people who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or tired of carrying so much alone.
In therapy, you’ll learn how to:
- Understand your anxiety triggers
- Break patterns of overthinking
- Manage physical symptoms
- Sleep and concentrate better
- Reconnect with yourself and others
We also offer evening appointments to make therapy more accessible for busy schedules.
Ready to Talk?
If this sounds familiar, it’s probably time to talk to someone.
At Sunset Counseling Services, we’re here to help you feel more grounded, clear, and in control. We know how hard it is to take that first step. But you’ve already taken one — by being here.
Take the next step. Learn more about anxiety counseling or contact us to schedule an anxiety counseling session.
You don’t have to do this alone. We’re here when you’re ready.